Truckers wife and frustrated

by Needing advice
(Florida)

Of course I'm a truckers wife...never did I think I would be...but I am. I love my trucker but I'm so frustrated with him. U see I have a full time job plus a 13 year old son (previous marriage) and a 9 month old.

My hubby is gone a lot...and we fight about him being on the phone, Facebook and texting other women. He says... " they r just friends...I get bored". Then he FB all the time searching for porn sites and what not. I've asked him to stop...to no avail.

And now we fight about him not being able to spend money when he wants. I'm not supposed to ask questions. When I took care of all the bills when he was not working and put the down payment on our truck to become an independent contractor.

Is it too much to ask to stop talking to other women all the time? Then again, I get accused of being controlling because I'm responsible.

I want us to work but he's making me hate life.

Help.