Lonely Wife - Lonely Life

by ALANNA
(CANADA)

Well we have been married for 18 years, with two great kids 18 & 16. Hubby has taken on some trucking jobs, don't get me wrong they pay very well.

Our plan is to be able to pay off everything and then be able to start and enjoy our retirement early. It all sounds good, but if we get there is another story.

I have recently found out that my husband has been having a texting affair with some waitress. Then to find out that he was texting another one last year after I checked the phone bill, but she was a driver for the same company.

I have supported my husbands decision 100 percent. BUT I am getting a PO with it all.
I am a good wife, take care of the things at home from top to bottom, inside and out.

Take care of the kids and the vehicles and anything else he asks me to do. Plus I work full time myself.

So I feel pretty hurt and betrayed by my own husband, thats what I GET IN RETURN. HMM IS IT ALL WORTH IT!!

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Jul 25, 2012
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deception never is worth it NEW
by: Anonymous

Sorry, you have a big decision to make although they do claim marriages can be saved after infidelity, that's entirely up to you and him. Take time out from all the good treatment you give him and give it back to yourself, you are the one who deserves it the most, if you cant be good to you who else will?? Then you wont have time to do so much for him and he will have to do for stuff for once by himself, he might get the message. Then again he might not?? Take a nice vacation for you, your kids are old enough to stay home by themselves by now send them to a family member if not. Go somewhere you have dreamed about by yourself, treat yourself good. Turn off the cell phone this will give you the time you need to think things over. Watch out for the doormat syndrome where you get step on and he gets to text or have affairs with other people.

You will manage we strong women have a way of moving on and taking care of ourselves with or without a man in the background. Good luck.

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