is this cheating??

by Linda
(Rochester NY)

I have always trusted my husband while he is over the road. We talk a lot and even dabbled a bit in phone sex with skype, up until Feb. For the last year or so he hardly touches me, shows no affection or even terms of endearments.

So I snooped into his skype and found he is having skype phone sex with at least 3 women. He claims they are overseas and the reason he does this when he is home, is because I am always sleeping.

I work overnights and sleep during the day, however I took a week off in May while he was home and I have weekends off.....so that's not true. Would you look at this as cheating? I really am hurt and crushed over this and told him so.

I also told him we have to talk when he comes home and changes have to be made and kept on both our parts.

I have never been unfaithful to him and always trusted him. What are your opinions on this???