Feeling isolated!

I am not a jealous woman! My husband has become a trainer for about a year now! He mainly trains young females! He will be constantly kidding around with her while we r talking on the phone. He suffers from ADD and PTSD. Can't take meds for it because of DOT regulations. I know he loves me , but not in love with me anymore.

Out of respect for ur wife u don't kid around with the trainee while ur On phone with wife. Not very affectionate when he comes home. Feels like brother sister.

I have talked to him about it. emotionally and mentally abused because of his ADD and PTSD.

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May 25, 2016
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How do you know? NEW
by: Anonymous

You say your husband loves you but is not in love with you any more! What makes you say this? He may or may not love you at all! He may just come home to you because that home or apartment that you both share has his name on the lease or mortgage and comes home to get away and out of the truck! Do not depend solely on him to make you happy, ONLY you can make yourself happy and you cannot change anyone, the only one that can change is yourself. You sound like you have self-esteem issues. If you do not like him teasing his female trainee in front of you over the phone and it bothers you, then let him know and let him know you will not put up with it and ask him how he would like it if you were at work and he called you and he could hear you joking and playing around with a male co-worker and if he keeps doing this to you, just remember you have a choice and that choice is to HANG UP ON HIM when he does this, trust me he'll get the picture and you mentioned he has ADD and PTSD but cannot take meds because of DOT regulations, well you two may need marriage counseling that he seems to be overly friendly with his female trainee and yet at home he treats you as though you two are just ships passing each other in the ocean, also just remember you teach people how to treat you, DO NOT accept his treatment to you like this, take a stand and tell him to treat you better and if he does not, then get out and get away from him because he is not going to change! Good luck and I wish you the best!

May 10, 2016
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by: Anonymous

As women we are naturally caretakers. Until it comes to ourselves. Ask yourself do you deserve to be happy? You are worth it. Sometimes after you've done all you can you just got to make a decision based on your selfish needs. If you've talked about it and there's no connection... why stay
You can't force someone to love you. But you can make them miss you.

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