Confused

Why doesn't my man call me anymore and when I get hold of him he says he has been driving. He use to call me sweetie now its what's up are you OK.

But he says he can't get home time yet so I'm hearing things from his friends that he isn't coming back. I really love him and miss him a lot.

Should I believe any of this. Please help me then his friends say he's cheating on me what should I do.

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Nov 17, 2016
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starstarstarstarstar 		Wifey
by: Anonymous

We've been together over 3 yrs. Got married this yr. He's a big flirt. I go on the road with him. Before i went with him i cringed when he left. His best friend knows how he is on the road by himself. Before i went on the road he never called only when he parked. Would only talk a few minutes.

I would would call back after an hour or so. He always had an excuse why he didn't call back. When he came home on the week ends he was too tired for sex. Once in a blue moon.

Now i'm on the road with him. It couldn't be better. But he still flirts.

He says hes just being nice. At least i know i'm the one hes sleeping with now.
Nov 03, 2016
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starstarstarstarstar 		OTR stands for over the relationship
by: Anonymous

This is what they get to, instead of over the road, they are over the relationship. Mine would Find any excuse to argue so he doesn't have to give me explanations of what he did or where he was.

Since going to school and getting license, he shared room with puertorican guys ( don't get me wrong I'm Puerto Rican) and that is exactly why I was so worried, and I mean was because I am not going to continue to wait for an asshole that is leaving me to guess what he is doing.

His roommates are married yet since they have been in school one of them already slept with another college student. I can't believe a 50 year old man would get influence by a 30 something kid. Maybe it's a midlife crisis but definitely I'm not going to wait, cry and then when he gets back get sick with an STD.

Tenzi been there he has not call me what a S.O.B. all the lies that he told me throughout the years change in a matter of eight weeks.

A man like this is not worth waiting for I read in this blog many of these blogs talk about how the woman should be supportive of their partner however it should be the other way around the partner should be supportive of the woman he's leaving home to take care of the house and the kids and any emergency that may arise he would just be out driving who has it worse him or her?
Oct 30, 2016
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by: Anonymous

Well now his message box is full and he still won't call or text me back I have left text message to call me because I'm worried about him and live him and miss him love baby girl and little boy and sweetie that my dogs and me.

He told me use my head whenever told anyone he wasn't coming home so should I think he don't want to be with me anymore. I really don't know what to do been with him 23 years and and I have his vehicle and things here

Please help confused
Oct 30, 2016
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starstarstarstarstar 		Totally confused
by: Anonymous

The road changes them! When a person is out on the road, behind the wheel, getting paid to see the sights, has all their means met over the road - at truck stops, they have eateries, laundry facilities, a lounge where they can mingle with other truckers, and yes, women, whether lot lizards, or other truckers, a man can get all his needs met while not being at home.

Mine, too, used to call me sweetie and honey bun, now I get the same reply as you, who knows, maybe your man and my man are being influenced by the same people.

There have been times when I have talked to mine, he would be happy as a lark, and then if I said one wrong thing, gee whiz, I would think he was turning into a crazy person.

Mine has never said he was not coming back and I have not been told this by anyone but like I said trucking gives these guys the single life, whether they have a girlfriend or a wife, if he does come back to you, I would be very very careful of wanting to have intimacy with him.

I work in a doctor's office and my boss (the doctor) is always lecturing us girls to not have unprotected sex and he did call me in his office privately to tell me that since mine is an OTR trucker, to wear a condom and to avoid oral sex since you can also contract an STD even thru oral sex.

I mean he said that truckers are not the only ones to give STDs!

Good luck and move on!
Oct 20, 2016
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starstarstarstarstar 		Question him
by: Hervy

Point out what you just pointed out and ask him

1. Has anything changed with the relationships that you don't know about.

2. What are his plans for the future. Then after he responds, say, "Where do I fit in there?"

The way he responds to those question should either confirm what you are questioning about the relationship.

If the man cares about you and the relationships then he won't blow it off, he will give you the logical explanation that you just hadn't thought of. He would then have no problem talk about his ideas for the future.

If however, he acts like those question are ridiculous in order not to answer the questions it should tell you something important.

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