a proud wife of a good man
by Stephanie cremeans
(Dayton ohio)
We are pregnant with are 5th child and are going on 10 years married, he comes home 3 times a month for 30 hours or 10 or not at all.
My 3 questions I always ask
1 are you bring home any money
2 if you cheated would you tell me
3 do you miss me or just the kids
just make sure you don't ask every time you see or talk to each other. Think of yourself as an army wife just with less pay and less public respect.
Do not let him know u feel like a single parent or that they do all this for just themselves, it doesn't jus hurt one of you that they can't be there, don't give bad news but don't leave them out on everything.
Don't worry if they don't make it home for things like Christmas the kids won't mind even if you have it in July seeing you and a hug and being Told I love is all my kids need and same with me.
I'm just happy it's something he wants to do, and they are letting him be Able to be home when I have the baby so someone can be with our older kids.