how do you know ?

by gentle
(mo)

So my bf and I have been together for almost a year and are discussing taking the next step. I trust this man, I love this man, am proud of him and his job as a trucker.

Ive never dated a trucker before so this is all new to me and its a steep learning curve. Ive been raising 2 children on my own for 6 yrs so I know what its like to do everything on my own.

However, with him also comes 2 more children and the last thing I want is to hurt any of them... so the question is....how do you know if you are strong enough to be a truckers wife??

My family only points out the negatives and are against my being with a trucker. Telling me how hard and not worth it it is. I think he is very worth it but have never been in this situation before. Not to mention we are total opposites.

He's loud im quiet, he's rough and ready im a pacifist...the list goes on. We are totally made for each other. His strengths are my weaknesses and vice versa.

What if im not strong enough for him? What if I cant be the woman he deserves? How in the world do you know??? Sorry if I rambled...just don't want the kids or my man hurt.