Concerned About His Lying and Actions
Ok, maybe I'm green about this. But I need help. My husband, who doesn't eat cucumbers...purchases 2 cucumbers and 1 3 pack of condoms EVERY time he goes on the road. Which is weekly!
The only reason I know is because he stops at a Walmart and uses our walmart+ account to make the purchases so I can see the receipts when I check online orders.
It's been about 2 years since I noticed this trend. I confronted him about it. He tells me the condoms are for a sex toy he takes with him on the road (why would he need a condom with his personal sex toy??) He jokingly said he gets cucumbers in case he buys a salad from a truck stop. Now I've been with him 8 years and NEVER has he eaten extra cucumbers on salad. And WHY wouldn't you just BUY a salad whilst at walmart???
I'm gonna say...I have a deep seated feeling of what he's doing with this. And it's really traumatizing to me considering the things he's been through in life. I love him but the lying and being dishonest to protect his own fetish is killing me in the process.
So truckers (and wives) what are your honest thoughts? Our lives hang in the balance and he thinks my kind heart will just cause me to overlook this like overlooked soooooo many other things.