We've been dating for over 3 months and he pretty much lives with me. He just started truck driving a month ago and is still with a trainer.
My issue is that he refuses to trust me, he always thinks I'm lying and hiding things from him. He seems to have a big problem with the fact that he doesn't know what I'm doing, or who I'm talking to.
I know the risks and struggles involved with dating a trucker and I trust him. We talk and text daily and I tell him everything that's going on but if he thinks I'm hiding something or I forget to mention something right away he freaks out.
One of his favorite phrases is "how am I supposed to know what you're doing when I'm thousands of miles away?" He says I'm not trust worthy and I'm deceptive because I lied one time about something small and insignificant. Only reason I lied is because I didn't want to fight with him.
He uses that one situation to base all of his trust on and thinks the absolute worst about what I'm doing. I'm at my wits end as to how to fix the situation or help it I'm not sure as to what to do.
I love him and I want to marry him and I want to have children with him, but the trust issue and the miscommunication is going to be the end of us.
I don't want to give up but I can't handle the verbal abuse and false accusations.
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