Our marriage stalled and is now disastrous

by lessa
(michigan)

our marriage stalled out and now its disastrous. We need to see each other more and provide emotional and physical attachments again.

We are trying to repair damage from infidelity, but just do not know if it can come back.

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Feb 21, 2017
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It is always possible but often people need outside assistance
by: Hervy

It can come back if you both believe that it can and also desire equally for it to come back.

And.... also commit to taking steps in making it happen.

Those steps at this point seem to start with counseling in order to have a moderator facilitate the effectiveness of conversations, viewpoints, thoughts, ideas, standards, expectations, etc that MUST be communicated.

Without certain things done to repair this relationship, it can not heal. If it does not heal it is still not well.

It has to be a difficult situation to be in. However, the past must be let go once you work though it and commit to moving forward.

Many people are not able to work through it without outside help involved. A lot of people don't understand how to let it go.

Church counselor, private marriage counselor or relationship coach all are options for helping to repair your marriage.

So what can you do next?
Answer that question with a list of actions. Choose the best one.

Meanwhile...
Long Distance Relationships

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