My husband seems very irritated since driving OTR..I think losin my marriage dont know what to do

by kaykay
(miami, fl)

We have been married for 12 years and my husband is not showing me the same affection he used too.

Tried being quiet..not workin.there was a time in marriage where I had to take care of all the bills.

Then he decided to go back OTR and he says he doesn't care to be home as much anymore..he jus want to make money and be free. I feel he is losin himself on the..when he first started it was all about comin home to me and the two kids..they r age 10 and 11months.

I feel lost am home workin takin care of the kids and feel he has forgotten about the family...he will check on the girls and give them whatever they want

..see our 10year old recital but he has an absence when he comes in town..he wants to go out hang out all the time..I Think I am a bother to him...

Am tired of tryin to reach out to him..its makes me sad and angry at the same time.
Don't know what to do anymore..does anyone other truck driver wife relate to this...

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Mar 11, 2017
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tired
by: MELISA

I BEEN MARRIED SINCE'S 2005 AND MY HUSBAND AND I HAD A BABY GIRL. WILL SHE IS 12 GOING THROW ALOT HER SELF BUT ME OVER THE YEARS IT SEEM'S LIKE I AM LOSING HIM ALL HE CARE'S ABOUT IS THE BILL'S WE DONT MAKE LOVE ANYMORE WE DONT GO TO MOVE'S. WE DONT HOLD HANDS WE DONT ACT LIKE MARRIED COUPLE'S. WE ALWAYS TALK ABOUT OUR DAUGHTER AND BILL"S AND HIS JOB.

WHAT THE HELL ABOUT ME I HAVE FEELS AND NEED'S TOO. I DONT CHEAT I'AM CLOSED TO TAKING CARE OF OUR DAUGHTER AND OTHER FAMILY. THAT WE LIVE WITH.

HE HAS CHANGED JOBS TO ALOT OF TRUCKING JOBS AND WHEN HE SAYS HE IS GOING TO FIND A JOB AROUND HOME HE ALWAYS GOS BACK TO TRUCKING AND SAYS IT PAYS BETTER.

AM I THE ONLY ONE THAT FEELS THESE'S WAY.I DONT GET OUT AT ALL I LIVE IN UTAH IF ANYONE KNOW'S HOW I COULD MET OTHER WIFE'S I SO NEED FRIEND'S. E-MAIL ME AT MELISAMALONEY1979@GMAIL.COM

Aug 19, 2014
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U have decisions to make
by: Anonymous

sorry to hear about ur troubles. maybe u can get counseling and if he doesn't want to maybe its just time to move on he already said he wants to be free i don't know what else someone can say to give a hint that they want out of the relationship???

give him that. he will have to spend more money in alimony and child support than if he keeps u?? but what a way to keep a man tied down and in a loveless relationship. u have decisions to make look out for u cause he sure isnt...js

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