Me Time When He is Gone

My husband is brand new at being a trucker & I couldn't wait to get him out of the house! I am in heaven when he's gone & in hell when he comes home & the house is a lot neater when he's gone!

When he's home my place looks like a tornado blew stuff around. He's such a slob. So is it hard for me being a trucker's wife - no but hell no!

I have a friend that also wants her husband to become a trucker so quest can get her hemorrhoid husband out of the house! All they think about is sex all the time! I would prefer reading a good book or watching a good movie alone than spending it with my husband at bedtime!

That is the only time men seem to pay attention to you is when they want to get laid & after they get laid you are forgotten, ignored & rejected!

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Jun 24, 2013
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Grateful wife who misses her hubby NEW
by: Anonymous

Good for you who foolishly does this! My mother is constantly on my hubby's back & she has already said to me that I have never had to pick up after your father & my mother is glad that my father never became a trucker "cause my father never wanted to be titled a slob! Have a nice day!

Jun 24, 2013
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grateful wife who misses her slob NEW
by: crystal

Those women know nothing of love. And I agree they are chicken to post anonymously. I've known people like them before and thats why I don't associate with them anymore. My house looks like a tornado hit it after my husband leaves out and I'm grateful it does. Yeah my husband is messy but I am so happy when he comes home. He is usually out for 6 weeks at a time and I miss him every day he is gone. I enjoy time to myself, but I'd rather have hubby. I am thankful he sacrifices so much to provide for us. I hope I honor him as well as he honors me. I may get frustrated cleaning up after him but I wouldnt have it any other way.

Apr 23, 2013
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and you wont have a blessed day... NEW
by: Anonymous

to blessed day,

because being judgmental is not part of God's work so not only are you contradicting Christianity or religion by putting others down, you are also a hypocrite... not to godly of you....you are using his blessings in vain.... don't expect to much in return for taking his work and twisting it up to bless people when your not a true believer....
fake and phoney is more like it...

Apr 23, 2013
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Wow, wow, wow NEW
by: Older and wiser

Wow, Nick is right, those girls sound like young man haters...My husband has daughters that are in their 20's that act just like that...They run in packs, don't work, pop out babies and live off their boy friends/husbands and welfare... So glad they decided to leave this forum... Everyone else, and Nick, have a blessed day.

Apr 23, 2013
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Apr 22, 2013
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Do Not Judge Or Comment Till You'Ve Walked A Mile In Their Shoes NEW
by: Anonymous

To Brenda - I am the best friend to the one that you commented that her comment made you sick to your stomach well she is not trash! I have known her for 10 years when both of our Fathers who are retired U.S Marines that are highly decorated men but you do not know her husband, I do & she did no wrong to make him the way he is! I work in a university where I am also a med student & I have had ladies tell me they are widows & I have told them sorry to hear that & they said don't be, the only thing they missed was their husband's income, some told me they have stumped & spat on the grave & I said OMG that is no way to talk about the dead & I've been told sweetheart don't say that till you've walked a mile in our shoes & you said being a trucker's wife is hard, not as hard as a child or wife dealing with deployments that lasted over a year like 3 deployments & my friend just lost both parents in a car accident & & my friend was venting her anger, & you say marriage is a sacred bond ( you must be religious or look at your hubby through rose colored glasses or going thru the honeymoon stage - honeymoons do end) & my friend has tried to talk to her hubby & it's 1 sided, it's all about him, for now I'm glad I'm single concentrating on my studies & nor I nor my friend will enter this site again because nor I or my friend care what you think lof her or what others have to say so if her comment is still making you sick to your stomach then go grab that emesis basin! Goodbye & again my friend & I will not know your reply because we don't care & this is our last time visiting this site!

Apr 22, 2013
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Apr 18, 2013
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Gay weirdo NEW
by: Anonymous

I am so glad I am hitting a nerve with you because you say you are lucky to be married to your wife (hmm a man or woman lol) & you started it & you are going to say I am bothering you! You are not an amigo because you are a foreigner & your wife is unlucky to be with you & your advice stinks because you have no PhD in psychology & you don't own a dictionary because hillbillies or trailer park trash don't own dictionaries! I'm through with you & won't see your reply to this because I won't open this site to see how much of a child you are! Adios amigo lol lol lol lol On Suka to you!

Apr 18, 2013
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I thought you said you were leaving NickV? NEW
by: Anonymous

what happened you lied...mmmmm...

not only are you full of yourself,

full of bulls_ _ _,

but you are also a liar...mmmmm...

that's typical behavior of a male chauvinist pig!

I think you have way to much time on your hands...
and it shows in your level of intelligence...that would be ignorant...

Apr 18, 2013
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NickV NEW
by: Anonymous

Lol u r probably married to a man so goodbye & u r disgraceful & other people have also commented negatively about u so go & watch teletubbies & Bert & Ernie from Sesame Street - the 2 gay guys which that defines your marrige & to give advice u should have a PhD in psychology so if anything u r trailer park trash & u said u r not an amigo so that makes u a foreigner! I am glad that I hit a nerve with u lol On Suka!

Apr 18, 2013
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Sick to my stomach NEW
by: Brenda

As a trucker's wife, this comment made me sick to my stomach. I believe people have a right to their opinion and should be allowed to say what they want. EXCEPTION to this is someone that trashes their spouse that is doing a job that is really hard on a person's mind. Marriage is a sacred bond and you should never talk that way about your spouse. If you are so unhappy then you should find a way to make your relationship better not go to a website and degrade. Life as a trucker's wife is hard. Most of the time you are having to do more then you thought you were signing up for but when you agreed to the marriage you took all faults with it. Talk to your husband and get help because this way of talking make you sound like trash and no women should be happy with people thinking that of them.

Apr 18, 2013
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All us women? NEW
by: NickV

News flash, you don't know me either. And as far as leaving this website I've been giving advice on here for awhile and never run across someone such as yourself. Your obviously a child with nothing better to do and good for you for owning a dictionary. I like how you put asterisks in your cursing to show your age..real cute. Go bother someone else cause obviously your in search for drama and i'm tired of belittling you. (yeah grab your dictionary, belittling.) And f.y.i i'm far from a chauvinist I wouldn't be as lucky to marry my wife if I were. So whenever your done pointing fingers I think it's time for your nap since you just came back from recess.

Apr 18, 2013
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Look up slander NEW
by: Anonymous

NickV - you posted about the woman that slandered her husband - well if u look up slander it states it is a false statement about someone - well she did not make a false statement considering she lives with him & knows him well which U DO NOT KNOW HER OR HIM! It sounds like u r a male chauvinist & u r full of s**t! So u should give all us women a break by leaving this website! Bye bye & adios amigo!

Apr 18, 2013
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And by the way NEW
by: NickV

I'm not your amigo so don't call me that. Never have been, never will be...schmuck

Apr 18, 2013
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Get off your soap box NEW
by: NickV

Wow you really must not have anything better to do. I was adult about it and apologized but i'm not getting backed into a corner over this stupid, irrelevant topic. I notice everyone is commenting under anonymous so I can't tell who is throwing the punches but you should really grow up. I need to get off the internet but you can't even post correctly and it has no meaning whatsoever. Get a vocabulary and get off your soap box. The horse is dead, move on

Apr 18, 2013
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You need to get off the internet NEW
by: Anonymous

Adios Amigo bye bye!

Apr 18, 2013
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You need to get off the internet NEW
by: Anonymous

Adios Amigo bye bye!

Apr 18, 2013
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You need to get off the internet NEW
by: Anonymous

Adios Amigo bye bye!

Apr 17, 2013
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sounds like a good idea! NEW
by: Anonymous

bye-bye

Apr 17, 2013
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Anonymous, Anonymous NEW
by: NickV

Excuse me for calling out the obvious but the only posts from a large amount of females on this site are from people who are actually heat broken over the fact their better half is gone. I apologize for ruffling feathers as obviously I did. I have been giving advice on this website for the past 2 years atleast and this is the first time i've ran into trouble. Maybe I went beyond my knowledge of this particular situation but as you have well explained I was using my rights to freedom of speech. Maybe i'm full of it, maybe i'm not, but the truth of the matter is this is no way to talk about your marriage. If the guy is a idiot then what does that make you? I'm done with this and I will NEVER post again about relationship stuff. This particular story struck a nerve and I expressed my feelings. Anyone has questions about trucking I am more than willing to answer but this is crazy. I've tucked my tail on this one and it's not me to do that. Enjoy

Apr 17, 2013
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NickV NEW
by: Anonymous

your just full of yourself......and you know what that means... full of sh--

Apr 17, 2013
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Wow x 2 NEW
by: NickV

I may have used my words a little loosely by saying grieving but most women on here are sad that their trucker is gone a month at a time, not celebrating it. And as far as freedom of speech i'm no bigger fan of it. You have really got to be kidding me that i'm the one with the same freedom of speech and getting wrath for it. This woman had slandered her husband and that's ok? I guess so, maybe I have a different marriage then most. When i'm gone my wife wants nothing more then me to be home. This is ludicrous and if you have a problem with what I say then that's fine. Angry wives unite I guess.

Apr 17, 2013
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Everyone is different! Woeee! NickV NEW
by: Anonymous

I have not read any where on this site that says what you put in your post below.....

"This website is for grieving wives and girlfriends who miss their boyfriends and husband with every breath they take, not have people hiding in the closets eagerly awaiting his rig to roll out of the driveway."

This is farthest from the truth....in the real world people have a right to say whatever they want on an open website.....bejeeezzzz

Apr 17, 2013
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Need no support NEW
by: Anonymous

To NickV u don't know me so don't judge me but my harsh posting about my hub came from him - he made me this way & for your info he chose this job move after his last supervisor fired him because of hub's personality & his co-workers couldn't stand him so I prefer my Nook & iPad over him anyday & we've been in supermarkets & I have had cashiers ask me what his problem was because he would get pissed off at them but you are a man so you are probably a woman hater & I don't need support while he is away & don't need another wife to give me emotional support!

Apr 17, 2013
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Ouch Thats Harsh NEW
by: Anonymous

Ouch that's harsh I thought this was a supportive web sight.I should think any women could voice her opinion.Being married
To a trucker isn't always peaches in cream some times it does stink.I also think this carrier choice alows a man his freedom and a person should'nt blame herself for his choice of carrier .In my opinion sometimes I think this carrier is a cop out on family life.
Anyways I should think we stick to supporting each other.
After all I know I feel alone.Im not looking for no one else I've
Been faithful and Really feel alone

Apr 17, 2013
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Everyone is different! NEW
by: Anonymous

I feel if you like a lot of "me time" that's okay....I love it myself...and it is true that most truck drivers are slobs...they get use to living in clutter because there is no one there to clean up after them, so they just plainly get use to it....and that's okay too...to each his own right?

Since I like basically living by myself and he likes living like a slob, and being a truck driver, who am I to complain, as long as he doesn't have anything to say about how I like to live, I don't need to tell him he is a slob...its on an even scale here, and that's what makes it work...

If I get mad at him and I put him on blast I do it, and when he gets mad and puts me on blast, he does it....who am I to question the balance, this is what married couples do....it is not all peaches and cream in heaven, this marriage thing ya know...

If you want to blast someone on this site feel free that is what this site is all about.... have people forgotten freedom of speech is here to stay in America....if you like the way you live then to be smart is to let others live the way they want...

Apr 17, 2013
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Wow NEW
by: NickV

Sounds to me you have a highly toxic marriage and you should start there. I could only hope your husband reads this and you feel horrible about it. If your that unhappy with your husband then you should leave him cause blasting him on a website not only is a chicken move but shows a lot about your character. I'm sure he'd rather be alone anyway judging by your actions while he's out trying to make a living. This website is for grieving wives and girlfriends who miss their boyfriends and husband with every breath they take, not have people hiding in the closets eagerly awaiting his rig to roll out of the driveway. You should be ashamed of yourself. You are the exact women every trucker prays every night he does not have. Probably the type that would cheat on a soldier at war. I'm over this, you got a serious problem and it goes a lot deeper then your messy trucker. Good luck, in your relationship and life...it's gonna be a rough road

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