I get it...but does he get me?

by Kerry
(alberta)

I am a girlfriend of a trucker. I adore him as much as he adores me, he is my soul mate.

Some days I wonder if i am his first or second love.. he came to Canada to be with me, he is Scottish, however he drives all across America and is home one day out of 90. it is difficult however I understand.

I am incredibly independent, and like things my way, however I would like to get laid more than 5 times out of a year.

I don't think I am being out of line, especially since he wants a baby of his own.. i have 2 from another relationship. We are both over 39.

I get his love of travel and long haul, he is a Gemini... I am a cancer, and i love to be at home. He is my choice in a lover, there is a lot of passion, but how can he understand that I need him to come home at least once a month?

Does anyone have this experience?

We both have the same goal, to work hard to save money so we can start a business.. however the distance sucks.