How common is cheating or straying amoung truckers? Where do they hook up? Are some truck stops known for it?

by DZRTJUL
(San Diego, Cailfornia)

Where do these cheaters cheat?

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Dec 05, 2017
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Drivers dont cheat, wives do NEW
by: Anonymous

All these commenters have it wrong, except for those defending truckers. I came back to this industry the first part of 2017. I haven't seen a lot lizard out here. On top of that, truck drivers don't have time to cheat or do drugs. If they did drugs, they would be fired and blackballed from the industry, the first drug test they failed. Secondly, drivers sit hours in shippers and hours in receivers and rush to get the next load there. No time for cheating.

The reason I left this industry in 2000 is because my wife ran around with a drug dealer, bankrupted me, and had sex with him multiple times. I am still with her and after 28 years of marriage, I have not once cheated or talked to another female. So chew on that for a while.

Nov 07, 2017
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Quit Stereotyping NEW
by: Mongoose

Let's be real here. Most of the drivers I know are good, hard working, straight laced men and women. They don't cheat. They work their asses off 14 hrs a day, 11 of which is spent driving, and they're home on the weekends. Half of them got their partners riding with them when they go out. A few of them are single, and have multiple people they see, and they are up front with it. No dirty secrets or lies.

For myself, I'm single, solo driver, and couldn't get laid if I crawled up a chickens ass and waited even, so I don't worry about it, I just drive drive drive. No reason to go home. Nobody to go home to. So I stay out. On the couple of rare occasions where I did have a girlfriend, I wasn't the one who cheated, but you can bet your ass that I'm the one who ended the relationships. I turned down contact info and several lot lizard hookups while I was with those women, but yeah, you just go on believing that we're all a bunch of lying, cheating, manwhores. You bitches can't keep your fuckjng legs closed for two weeks and wait for the man who loves you to come in off the road. Y'all don't deserve his loyalty. Fucking gold digging trashy sluts.

Quit deflecting your lack of a moral compass on drivers. By the way, to the dumbass that said we're all out here trading drugs at on ramps and drinking and partying up living the high life, what fucking planet are YOU from? You can't hatdly get a driving job if you can't piss clean. Almost all companies, even the small ones, do a preemployment drug screening, and then pop you with randoms at the drop of a hat. Get your fucking facts straight and quit propagating lies and hearsay.

Y'all are a bunch of ungrateful pieces of shit. Slamming on drivers just because you want attention. These drivers sacrifice so much of their personal lives for your benefit. I don't remember the taste of a hot home cooked meal. I don't remember the feel of a real bed. I don't remember the feel of a woman writhing in my arms, or that taste of her. All I do is chase fucking schedules, and collapse into my sleeper from exhaustion at the end of a day to wake up and do it again. I chose to make those sacrifices, so that you wouldn't have to, and so did all those other drivers. We sacrifice the comforts and pleasures of life that you take for granted, so that you don't have to, and there aint a single fucking thing you own that didn't come on the back of a truck.

A little respect and appreciation is long fucking overdue.

When I did OTR Training, Over the course of 2 months, I witnessed his marriage fall apart to where she served him divorce papers, and it was her, not him, that did the fucking cheating, yelling, screaming, and accusing.

So yeah, if you aint a driver, shut the fuck up and get the fuck out of here, because you don't matter. You're just another piece of shit that don't have a fucking clue what we deal with out here on the road. Only those partners who have lived the lifestyle earned that right.

Oct 10, 2017
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Think people NEW
by: Anonymous

You very simply need to think. If your partner offers for you to ride with them. Than suddenly it's a no go. After you have met requirements, think. Don't assume. Just consider why the change. If he's telling you not to contact him on the road. Don't assume. Think! If you study to become a trucker. And he doesn't want you on the road. Think. Never assume. Bottom line. Your at home. And you have just as much opportunity as he does. Don't play victims, be victorious. And that doesn't mean be a slut. Be a prize, a prize to be won!

Sep 02, 2017
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Secret Cell Phone NEW
by: Anonymous

One thing I haven't read about is the secret cell phone. Any cheap Straight Talk phone will work. My ex would tell me if he was cheating his cell phone would be blowing up. He said "I leave it out all the time and I don't have but one phone". Yeah. Found the receipt in the car for the activation. Didn't have access to his truck. Never found the phone, but pretty sure there was one.

And I agree with another poster. The lot lizards aren't the one's to be worried about. It's the cashier and the waitress at the truck stops that they frequent a lot and get friendly with.

Aug 23, 2017
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Craigslist for random sex NEW
by: Anonymous

My husband and I have been married for almost 15 years and about 4 years ago (pretty much right after he started driving a big rig) he was overnight in Greensboro NC and was apparently bored so he looked at Craigslist casual encounters. He said he replied to the post just for fun and got a response immediately so he "played along". The woman showed up at his truck and they fucked in the sleeper. He said he felt guilty even before it was over and "couldn't get rid of her quick enough". He told me that we were in a bad place at the time, but I didn't realize it was bad enough for him to seek out strange pussy. Now I can't stop thinking about it.

Jul 31, 2017
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hmmm NEW
by: Anonymous

Could be truckers are with truckers lol. That said in that view it is not cheating. In any case in truth cheating is the act in some view. However it could be seen that the act of having another partner. Yet if you want to get tech on the matter the past many had more than one partner and as there is more women than men it is logical to be open in ones relationship. That way the bird comes back. The 12 disciples had how many wives and concubines. In truth they each had 2 wives and at min 5 concubines. They are the side candy. Yet today many see this could never be a thing and yet it is more logical than that fantasy of just 1 perfect babble. Open your mind and heart as you can love more than one person and still keep loving the first love with out going out of the married thing. Shoot my woman and I agreed to this a long time ago and she has had many guys to enjoy and I am glad she had a good time. so Open your mind as the heart can be jealous over nothing. Remember a person that has a jealous heart believes they own that other person. As if they are property even more so when there is that marriage papers. I remind you that these papers are created by not the church but the government so they can keep track of you and who you do marry. Talk about big brother.

Jul 21, 2017
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How common is cheating or straying among truckers? NEW
by: Anonymous

Men have a bad rap and deservedly so, but if their cheating, there's also a women involved. My motto is, " Men are slime balls," never trust them, they will dissapointed you everytime!

Apr 03, 2017
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Really NEW
by: Anonymous

When I was married I never cheated on my wife but she did on me. Kids told me. We divorced because of that

Mar 31, 2017
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Is he cheating NEW
by: Anonymous

I've been dating this guy for 2 years and he's a truck driver and I found condoms in his truck and he says he used them to jack off lmao ! He bes in areas where he says he don't have service and he can't talk for a while, I just have a guy feeling he's cheating while in the road! What do u do? When u confront him he says I'm crazy

Mar 19, 2017
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Yes they all cheat NEW
by: Crazy stupid

I've been married 29 years to this man whore! I've checked phone records and found many females numbers! They talked 4 and 5 times a day everyday and he erases the text messages to them! I can only imagine how long this has been going on! I thought everything was great until I called a couple of them! One sent me an email with her miss finger up and the other mentioned that he said that we were separated and not on a good place! So when baby girl graduate from high school it's a wrap for me! In the meantime he's going to continue to pay these bills and then I'm going to add some more things for him to pay for because dick is all he's going to be given away not money!

Feb 03, 2017
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Cheating
by: Anonymous

I can't believe these posts I have never had the time to cheat married for 27 years now , also I personally know of only one man that did cheat on the road, but maybe it's because we are mostly to busy working, if we sat waiting around a lot then things would be different

Nov 15, 2016
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Truck stop sex
by: Anonymous

Where can I meet these guys. TExt me at 972-826-1871. Lets chat for a bit. MY name is Elizabeth and I'm kinda horny.

Sep 17, 2016
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Stop being ignorant
by: Jiim Dandy

Heres to ya, The f-ing truth. All humans do what comes naturally.-- WE HAVE SEX! And being married doesn't stop this process. That's right! Whether you like it or not, a man is very weak in the area of sex, especially when a beautiful woman is available to him. Its the nature of us, and will continue to be until we die. It doesn't mean we don't love our wives and family.

We do, but its our nature to breed. And again , being married isn't going to stop this. My wife doesn't need to know, and our sex life is fantastic. Keep breeding

Apr 21, 2016
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Cheating truck driver husbands
by: Anonymous

Well from the dates on his profile he had a new slut every other day. And no thoughts to what he would bring home to me or what he would catch. They all lie.

Some have a sick husband or wife he goes both ways. He even left is phone number for most of them and he did see them again apparently because he saved their phone numbers. I have a list and when I file for divorce you can bet each and everyone of them will be called into court.

Not to mention the ones I don't know about men and women they hookup at rest areas motels by truck stops they sell drugs on these sites bring it when they met to do their nasty and he is a crack head thought he had stopped but no!

Yes people open your eyes before it is to late and you are a murderer of the innocent!!!

Apr 21, 2016
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They lie about their relationships
by: Anonymous

There are way to many sluts and home wrecking whores on trucker personals. Com looking for a truck driver good time boyfriend. Male and female.

I found my husband's list of names and numbers and folks he is sick now. Thanks to you hip C, HIV, nasty dirty uncontrollable pieces of truck driver want to be pieces of shit. The women and gay men are unbelievable.

The drugs that are sold and passed among them no wonder there are so many wrecks on the road. The Dot, FMCSA, police and whom ever needs to be aware. They met on ramps, rest areas. Any place they can. Nothing but, TRASH.

They lie about their relationships. People wise up you stupid ass
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Apr 09, 2016
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Cheaters
by: Anonymous

I've been married for 35 years the first 10 was great then my husband went worked the drilling rig s sence he was 19 he done nothing but earned a living for our family but he has cheated on me a lot.

Sometimes right in front of me made moves on women but I've stayed and dealt with it and kept my mouth shut and watched me let him drag me down so why he cheats and then comes home and calls me a whore after having sex the night before this happened on for separate occasions and I know it's because of his own quilt.

So now I can care less if we have sex or not because I know he's a cheater and now that he's working a trucker s dream now as he calls it I know that the only reason he is driving is because is so he can cheat and not get caught but guess what I don't care as long as he leaves me alone.

He's nothing but a lier and a cheater and he's the one that has killed my love for him I don't have that un conditional love like I used to any more it's gone he can have Leslie Larsen carry boren party ,Bonnie Martines , Tony , and Leigh'a, and all the other wemen that want him he can have he's torn me enough

Feb 23, 2016
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Tumwater Wa waitresses messes with truckers
by: Anonymous

Hostess (wa I-5 N, Exit 99)pilot flying J, Whore, messes with married men, sleeps in their trucks after work. Her daughter works there too! These hostesses know these men are married!

And if they dont know they married dont they realize as many of the truckers they are sleeping with are doing the same things with lot lizards etc.

Low Key, these females employees at these truck stops are worse than the lot lizards. They often pass their numbers on receipts and wow, this really pumps up the ego of these drivers. ( they drive, no one said they were bright).

Feb 10, 2016
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whore
by: Anonymous

Julia from Calgary Alberta Canada gets with married truck drivers. Her black hair, pasty white skin and cheap perfume does the trick I guess.

Sep 03, 2015
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why is it always the mans fault
by: ron jeremy

Women drivers cheat to you make it out like its always the man let me tell you are all wrong I been driving for 25 years not once have I ever cheated on my wife of 30 years I make a good living at drivingva truck 5 children of ours were raised on truck driver money

Sep 02, 2015
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All of you are very nieve
by: Anonymous

WOMEN CHEAT MORE THAN MEN !

Jul 20, 2015
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stupid bitch
by: Anonymous

All i know is rebecca is a whore, getting with other women's men.......actually wanted to be a team with my husband.

Truck driving world didn't work out for her bc she wanted to spend all her time on her back. Married a sucker from stevens transport and already divorced

Jul 20, 2015
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in response to Bill.
by: Anonymous

Well i guess you and your wife are one of those couples that like playing russian roulette. Too bad for y'all should have wrapped it up.

So im guessing y'all probably have AIDS now. ha old people, so fucking wyle.

Jul 19, 2015
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sound like u women need real
by: Anonymous

Why do you women always bash men you women can be triffling ass bitches sounds to me like u cunt monkies are the ones humping around and blaming everyone else like always grow up and take responsibility for your own action the first woman probably can't keep her husband happy the second woman sounds like a sex addict.

Jul 08, 2015
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RE: Wow
by: Anonymous

Wow, did you read the title of the thread before commented? Stupid is as stupid does!


Jul 06, 2015
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Most of us are here to support our family
by: Anonymous

sounds like a bunch of jealous women! I'm a male truck driver, and let me tell you, I'm never anywhere long enough nor do I have the time to establish a love affair while on the road! And if your man is cheating on you, then you married the wrong guy!

I take offense to the trucker bashing going on here, some of us are actually out here earning a living to support our family!

Oct 30, 2014
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Here is my story
by: Anonymous

Of course men will cheat when they get a chance, but truckers will cheat more so than anyone else because its easier!

If he's married and has a good life in Ga, but meets a stupid pregnant whore in Gaston IN, in a Petro, and she ask him to go back to her place, even though he says that he in the middle of a divorce....please!

She believed him and so now he has his family in Ga and a good time in Gaston IN. Btw, the whore name is Tiffany. She was prego by another marrieds man baby.

Truckers can get away with it very easily....

Nov 19, 2013
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Cheating Truckers or Just Cheating Men?
by: Anonymous

I hate to be the bearer of bad news but your man can work at the corner store, shoot he can work from home and cheat.

yes I understand that some of you have had bad experiences. But please understand a man don't have to be a truck driver to be a cheating dog.

You just have to know your man , yourself and pray for the best...that's life momma!

Mar 31, 2012
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they cheat anywhere they can
by: Anonymous

They cheat everywhere they frequent if they deliver there a lot or they have to go to a certain truck stop a lot they get friendly and start cheating because the women are always flirting with them even when your there thay know which ones they can get.

the women who train them sleep with them and the women who drive want the money they make as well as they`re own .im not talking what i think i know this from exsperience.

AND LADIES A LOT OF MEN ARE SLEEPING WITH EACH OTHER TO ..THERE ARE GAYS AT THE TRUCK STOPS HAVING SEX WITH THE DRIVERS TO !!

Jan 26, 2012
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RE: Cheating Is Cheating
by: Anonymous

Good for you for finding out your trucker husband was cheating on you, and kudos to you for the clever way you went about doing it.

They all try to justify their actions by claiming they get "lonely" on the road, but they are the ones who chose that career, and with that choice comes sacrifices.

We wives didn't get "lonely" while they were gone?

Pffftt!

There is no justification, they're just horny with the opportunity to cheat, and they do.

Mine even started using binoculars to help him select something from the menu to ease his "loneliness".

I still get sick when I think about it!

Jan 23, 2012
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I caught him cheating and it was over
by: a former truckers wife

found out my trucker husband was cheating by checking his cell phone calls on computer.so then i was brave and called the numbers the where either chat lines or private numbers.

A good way to get info on who they are do as i did tell them you checking on a reference on him because he applied for a cc card and he forgot some info the will give you there name pretty quick and that the know him.

Then when he came home from the road i confronted him and slapped him with a tpo and then divorce papers

i know he got lonley out there but that is no reason to cheat on your spouse lot lizards, chat lines it dont matter cheating is cheating.

Sep 14, 2011
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No Phone Contact
by: Anonymous

Providing he isn't in an area where cell phone service is non-existent and he knows how to use a pay phone, the odds are very good that he's in the company of another female.

Its not that you can't know about her anymore than she can know about you, you see?

If I were you, I would create an on line account with his cell phone provider and monitor his phone activity from your computer.

Look for call frequency and length to non-800 numbers.

You can't do much to identify cell phone numbers, but you sure can call them.

You can identify most land line numbers by running them against on line white and yellow pages sites.

Watch how he behaves with his cell phone when he's in your presence.

If he keeps it with him 24/7, including while using the bathroom, or taking a shower, spends a lot of time outside (taking a walk, in the garage, etc.) when he's home, or makes frequent runs to the gas station for smokes, or gas, its a pretty sure bet he's calling a female.

If he uses his CB to solicit and communicate with his "strange", the only way to find that out is to ride with him and make sure the CB is always turned on.

Truth be told, if you're suspicious, he's probably cheating.

Good luck!






Sep 12, 2011
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long time boyfriend
by: Anonymous

what if they dont answer their phone or call for 5 days

Aug 22, 2011
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Cheating Truckers
by: Anonymous

I agree, a trucker will cheat whenever the opportunity arises, and it starts from the minute they walk out the front door of their home.

Female truckers and waitresses are a threat as much, if not more, than the lot lizards as many of them don't like sloppy 200ths.

Open an on line account and check his cell phone records.

Any meal receipts for dinners for two...where he bought a meal for a lumper, of course?

If you ever ride with him, does he keep his CB turned off?

Search his trucking bag for condoms and other evidence of cheating.

Check his truck if you have access to it. Offer to clean it for him.

Check his bedding for stains, etc, but he probably will use the female truckers bed, or he'll rent a room.

Watch for new sexual techniques in the bedroom.

Good luck!

I divorced my lying, cheating man whore!




May 23, 2011
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where do they cheat?
by: Anonymous

where ever they find the oppty. and it starts from the minute they walk out of the front door of there home....

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