Am I wrong?
So I'm looking for some feedback from you ladies of those of you who are in a romantic relationship with a truck driver.
So here's my situation:
My husband has been an Over-the-road trucker now for 3 years. With the company he's with now he's home 4 days out of the month.
Last year was the first time the opportunity arose that I could travel along with him while he worked. During that first trip, we had argued pretty bad. After that trip my husband "banned" me from his truck for 7 months for how I acted.
In April of this year I went with him for the 2nd time and we had a good trip together but we were gone for only 1 week. I just got home from my 3rd time of being with him on the road. We were gone for 19 days. Out of the 19 days we were gone, we argued for 3 of them.
The day we were headed home which was one of the days we argued, he told me he was going to drop me off in another state and make me take the Greyhound Bus home. It would have taken me at least 2 days to get home with no sleep overnight.
At the last minute he changed his mind and agreed to take me home with him. When we got home, he told me that I was again banned from his truck for the next 6 months. What are your thoughts on this, ladies??
My husband says that the main reason he bans me from his truck is because when we argue it makes him very mad and that is a safety hazard while he is driving.
I'm thinking that one reason we argued this last time was the length of time we were on the road together verses the 2nd time we were only gone for 1 week. On the way home, I hadn't showered in 4 days and wasn't getting very much sleep so I was not really feeling myself.
What are your thoughts, ladies, on my husband banning me from his truck to try to modify my behavior when/if I go with him again.
I feel like I have to be perfect when I go with him. Like he wants good days 100% of the time. I mean, 16 good days out of 19, I think that is pretty good!
Does he even care about the good days?
And what about my husband telling me he's going to drop me off at a truck stop and make me find my own way home? And by the way, on our first trip out together on his truck he PROMISED me that he would NEVER leave me at a truck stop.
So although he didn't follow through with it, to me he still broke his promise to me by telling me he was going to do it even though he changed his mind later.
Now my trust for him is broken and I don't even know if I WANT to ever go with him on his truck since he has shown me he is willing to abandon me in another state.
I need some advice. I really do. I need to know if I'm wrong. Thank you, ladies.