Am I wrong? Need some insight.
(New York, NY)
Hi everyone, my boy friend of almost 3 years has decided to change his career. He will be leaving for his 3 week training in a week. I am very supportive of his decision even with my doubts and worries about bills (which are already backed up).
That's really not the issue, we moved into our own apartment 8 months ago but before then we lived with my mother and my 10 year old daughter. When we moved in together he brought his 17 year old son to live with us because he wanted to get his son out of a living environment where the mother doesn't work never cleans the house and really is not paying his son attention.
His son is over all a good kid, he is ok in school he's also in basketball. But his mother never taught him the basics of life like personal hygiene and responsibilities in the house. So now that his father is choosing to make this drastic change in feeling very conflicted because I'm basically going to have this whole responsibility of a teen that is REALLY lazy.
I feel it's unfair to leave basically most the time and leave me with his son that doesn't help. I work full time and love my house in order.
I have a 10 year old I have to deal with myself. I feel like his son should move back with his mother. Am I wrong?