a truckers sucker

by anilem
(oregon)

 a trucker's sucker

a trucker's sucker

I'm a truckers wife. Its very hard because the reason why I married him was to be with him. And that never is the case.

I thought my hubby would only be thinking of me when he got home. But I found out he's been watching porno. He forgets I have feelings.

I call him he always saying honey there ice on the roads. Oh there's o bear_term for cop. And I tell him is there someone with you?

Now ladies I get this feeling all the time. He tells me I'm crazy. I'm so sick of staying with him but I bite the bullet for our babies.

Truck drivers get in there mind its okay to cheat since nobody know but woman do know we feel it.

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Mar 15, 2018
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Move on NEW
by: Anonymous

Honey, been there done that. You need to move on. I've spent 46 years making excuses for him and living with my head in the sand and now I'm stuck because of finances and can't get out. Get out while your young and can still make a life for yourself. When all is said and done you end up living with all the cheats and he acts like nothing has ever happened. Good luck, hope you do what is right for yourself.

Mar 15, 2018
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The old lady NEW
by: Anonymous

Jonathan, you are so young, and have so much more to learn. I've lived a good many more years than you and have learned through the years that you do the best with the cards you've been dealt. It isn't always a choice, some times it's survival.

Mar 13, 2018
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Get it right NEW
by: Jonathan j

You idiot I'm in my late 20's I am not that old idiot da if they aren't treated right get it and be treated right from somebody else that easy

Mar 13, 2018
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Get it right NEW
by: jon

I'm not 60 idiot I'm 27 da

Mar 09, 2018
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I must be a truckers sucker too NEW
by: Anonymous

My man is a long haul truck driver. He comes home once a week. We use to have regular sex once a week. Now he tells me he's tired, leave me alone and that he only wants to have sex once a month or once every 2 weeks now. I'm not allowed to approach him or initiate sex with him. It is now only on his terms. What am I suppose to think? I didn't get into a relationship with him to have sex once a month or twice a month. The thing is our relationship is still fairly new not even two years yet.

I've asked him if he's getting his needs met elsewhere and his reply is "Don't accuse me of cheating because if you do I will" or another one is "If you think I'm cheating than it's because you are" which I'm not. Is my truck driving man bull shitting me?

Mar 04, 2018
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Creep NEW
by: Anonymous

Jonathan Johnson you sir are a loser and a creep hitting on a women would is venting about her husband . Plus you are over 60 years old do you honestly think she wants to start a relationship with you or something? She needs advise or a friend not some loser who can't get a women , bro go on tinder or something you creep.

Mar 01, 2018
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reality NEW
by: Anonymous

sounds like you have a man that has watched too many episodes of smokey and the bandit. Also never use the "kids" excuse to stay with anyone...Stand strong and start planning and moving ahead with your life..Take care of YOU and the KIDS first..Sometimes a wise man told me it is good to Love from afar...Unless you think you have no survival capabilities, then think of your kids, and the instincts will kick in..I have been married to the same Wife for 19 yrs. and I always put her first once I got home..of course she had a few insecure feelings over the 15yrs that I was on the road, but I was reassuring..If your man cant do that, heck you have free time, start saving and focus on the future.....without his ass...

Feb 27, 2018
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jonathanjohnson1944@gmail.com NEW
by: Jonathan

Hello if you feel bad and not treated right why not give a good man a chance, to show you how things should be if you want above is my email address if nothing but talk that is fine if more that is fine also I'd you had me a good things would be better I just hate so see a good woman with a bad man but it happens to often to much, I'm here as a friend or more if you want you deserve a good man that calls and texts you everyday just to show you he is thinking about you

Feb 27, 2018
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jonathanjohnson1944@gmail.com NEW
by: Jonathan

Hello if you feel bad and not treated right why not give a good man a chance, to show you how things should be if you want above is my email address if nothing but talk that is fine if more that is fine also I'd you had me a good things would be better I just hate so see a good woman with a bad man but it happens to often to much,

Feb 27, 2018
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A great change you need NEW
by: Jonathan

To bad you are a beautiful woman but pick a bad man if I was him I would treat you better I can tell you that you deserve it any woman does


If you leave him let me know I'm single and looking a good woman like you

Jan 18, 2018
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All good NEW
by: Anonymous

Be strong and hang by your man! He good guy and a hard working monger! He misses you too

Dec 30, 2017
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Friendship NEW
by: Anonymous

Yeah, I live in the northwest, but it's nice to have a friend that listen's to you, I appreciate the friendship.

Dec 29, 2017
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To bad NEW
by: Anonymous

To bad we don’t live closer. I’d like to get to know you but that’s the it goes bummer 😼

Dec 28, 2017
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I'm trying NEW
by: Anonymous

Glynn, thanks for the vote of confident's. Been dealing with this for almost two years now and really want to put it all behind me, just don't know how. Just so many different people and when I ask questions, he never remembers. First time I had ever looked at his phone, and look what it got me.

Dec 27, 2017
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Don’t give up NEW
by: Glynn

That’s a tuff question ino how u feel it just takes time and staying away from him i made new friends soaked myself in work staying out of bars(-:)) my motto is I don’t drink smoke or chews and I don’t go with girls that do ha maybe you get my meaning hang in there you’ll make it

Dec 27, 2017
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Wrong man? NEW
by: Anonymous

Don't think I picked the wrong trucker, think I picked the wrong man. What I would like help with is how do you get over all the hookers and try to go on with some sanity. Any hints?

Dec 25, 2017
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He s nutty NEW
by: Glynn

U just picked the wrong truckerto be in love with to bad you ain’t near me owell

Dec 12, 2017
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Lucky Wife NEW
by: Anonymous

Hope your wife realizes how fortunate she is. I would never group all truck drivers together, but I really do feel that there are more that cheat than don't.

Dec 12, 2017
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Don’t jump to conclusion NEW
by: Anonymous

I’ve been truckdriver for 25year and have never strayed I look but no touch I get accused all the time but I just don’t the Golden rule

Dec 03, 2017
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Should have taken care of this a long time ago NEW
by: Anonymous

I've been married for 46 years and for 12 of those years my husband was a trucker, retiring just a year ago. I can not tell you how many STD's my husband gave me while on the road and of course always denying it. I obviously gave him a pass since I didn't leave him years ago, but now because of age and finances am stuck here. It started with lot lizards and ended up with escorts, some being his regulars. Not saying all truckers are like this, just be careful.

Nov 10, 2017
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Head east NEW
by: Anonymous

Dont listen to the hype ....stand by your man sweetheart

Nov 01, 2017
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Perspective NEW
by: Anonymous

I can't speak for your husband but as a Lady Trucker I have to tell you that it's not a vacation out on this road. I miss my husband and kids continuously. Unfortunately, calls are interrupted due to various reasons. I sometimes get so sad when hearing my family on the phone, I no longer can maintain conversation.
About companionship, it definitely gets lonely. Porn is as safe as it gets out here.

As adults, we all have choices. Porn or a prostitute? Try to change your prospective.

This career provides for my family in a way that no other job can compare. I will say this, if you guys want your marriage to work you have to be creative. Make videos for him, have phone sex and buy for sexy lingerie and keep positive thoughts in his head. Men are physically stronger than us but we are the strength that hold things together. He has to always know that you are with him (not just for the kids). He's out there to provide for his family.

Mar 02, 2012
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hey
by: Anonymous

hey hun i kno the feeling all the time

Mar 02, 2012
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dont be a sucker
by: Anonymous

well baby girl I would be for finding me a real and true man

Mar 02, 2012
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Advice
by: sharon@tobysgold.com

You are sweet young lady. Woman's feelings about things sometimes are correct but sometimes it is because we feel unsecure because we arent with our husbands all the time.

You stand by your husband until you find out if he is messing around on you. Email me at the above address and I share some feelings about this with you.

You seem young. But you really have to trust your husband unless he has given you reason to think otherwise.

sharon
trucking widow

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