Very HAPPY truckers wife with some words of advice
by Happy truckers wife
(Statesville nc u.s.a.)
Good relationship advice for trucking couples
I have read some of the post on here and I am very sorry that I share the title of being a truckers wife with some of you.
I have known my husband for 18 years been with him for 6 of those years and married for almost 2 years. I am a stay at home mom of a 15 ,14,13,and 3 year old. My husband has been a trucker for 11 years. And I am very happy to say that I am his #1 priority.
He is a otr trucker so we are on the phone throughout the day. He is never secretive and always answers the phone,emails,or text from me.it sounds like to me a lot of you men and women didn't have a clue what you were in for or you take your frustrations out on each other.
A trucker lives a hard life away from his/her loved ones dealing with other people's cap plus whatever is going on at home sleeping in a truck spending most of the real LIFE alone.
Being the one at home is not easy eat her but at least you have friends or someone you can talk to and be around your not always alone. My husband comes home and blows off friends,family, and work so he can be with us.
I think if you men and women grabbed a hold of your balls and tits grew up acted like men and women things would be so much easier. Talk to each other go on a date when the other gets home your not taking away from the kids mom and dad need to be lovers sometime not just mom and dad.
Remind each other what you love about each other don't just stand by and let it go to hell. Put your big kid pants on and fight for what is yours. I have a amazing husband. We have kids bills the whole nine. There is a 11 year age gap between us he is 43 I am 32.at least once a month we go on a date all by our self. Get back to us not just our life and his job.
My husband loves me more than anything on this world and I do him. We respect each other. And the sex is awesome. My advise is quite crying if you love the other and want to be with them fight for it stop fighting each other.
It is supposed to be you and him against the world not you and him against each other.