Resentful Recruiter Girlfriend
I’m realistic so with all do respect to everyone on here I just need to vent but need insight as well because I Do not know it all.
I’ve been a Recruiting Manager for over 10 years I’m the one who helps candidates find their jobs or essentially help them into their next role.
No I’m not the lying psycho recruiters that work for shitty transport companies that lie to your husbands promising and selling them dreams to get a warm body in a car ... thing chief financial officers and medical staff etc .... any way Backstory:
My man is over 37 years old transitioning from a not so legit lifestyle but very personable, great personality he could apply himself to do anything!
After almost two years of being broken up he relocated We we’re happy and doing things the right way I had been working my ass off longer than planned. paying all the bills while he figured it out.
I was immediately pissed because I knew the mindset and position your relationship needs to be in and the special person two people have to be for this to work out! We just aren’t there or I know I’m not here’s the feel:
I feel like this is a way out maybe he’s using me he couldn’t move out the shit town state we were from until I did then after three years later he can’t tell me where he sees our future.
He says he’s doing this for us but everything is trucking this and trucking that.
He asked me if I would consider getting my CDL and ride with him .. like are you a fucking idiot?
You do one accomplished responsible thing and you want me to quit my
career making over 85 k a year to come ride with you? He must of read that on some brainy trucker website he’s been researching..
What about my kids who’s taking care of them?
I couldn’t get his ass off the game fast enough to get a job and that’s all I do for a living .. the irony right ... now finally after I guess after he got tired of me bitching and fed up he woke up and decided to become a trucker and he’s been non stop he passed he’s ready to join a company now the lowlife elementary school recruiters all over him.
I’m jealous this was supposed to finally be about us and now he’s being ripped away and that’s his choice
I said all of that to say this I hate him my biggest insecurity is he will pick up the cutest free thing to come take a ride and join his new found journey since he mentioned me getting my CDL ...tf? while I’m over here playing wifey!
QUESTION: What’ is the down time to really meet up with women?
I want to be happy and supportive because this is new milestone for any man who has never had a legit life style Over the age of 35 however imo the money that people say they make that is
Great I don’t see it you’d have to do years or
Haul forever non stop to see that kind of return.
I feel like F you and to any woman who has this similar story of feeling like.. why? If it’s long term and he hasn’t married you, run cause this is bull n torture don’t be a glorified girlfriend that’s a man child !
QUESTION:AM I WRONG ?