My husband spends $1000 a month
My husband is spending $1000 a month, while I am sleeping on a mattress on the floor. He gives me an allowance and puts the rest in savings. Then he takes out loans for himself. I added it up i get 800 a month for myself and my two kids after bills. He is spending 1000 a month.
He has jokingly called me names lately and belittled me. We had a good relationship in the past but recently i feel like i cant trust him. Randomly he will call me sexy but thats the most affection I get. I stay home with the kids all day and i feel like he doesnt care about me anymore. Or the promises he made to make our house a home with furniture and curtains. Its bare and he only recently let me rent to own a new couch.
I was without a car for over a year because he cant save money. He then blames it on me. Be says I spend too much money. But he always has about 300 to 500 in loans taken out when the paycheck comes and im left with 200 to buy food and everything for the house.