lies of a truck driver

by tiredofbeingliedto
(washington)

I am trying to date a long haul truck driver. Its not that hes gone alot, its all the lies... example,, he will send me a picture of the road that he is on and how bad it is with snow, then to find out,, he got the picture off the internet.

He lies about his home life, he says his folks own a large cattle farm. come to find out,, they dont,,, heck,, his dad is dead and his mom has remarried and has moved to a different state..

He says he lives with a old friend of the family,, ( a women) but i am sure here is something going on between them,, its like he is living 2 maybe 3 or more lives.

I have caught him in so many lies that i keep him around for the laughs,, he is better then sitting and watching a soap opera!
so my question is???

Is there something mental with just this trucker or are trucker out there the biggest liers there are??? really no pune intended,, thank you for reading this and your replies..

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Dec 05, 2016
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In response to lies of a trucker NEW
by: Anonymous

I am 48, and raised 4 kids been married 30 years and owned a bar which I worked for over a decade and although I don't know everything about dating, relationships and men, I do know a thing or two about liars.
Everyone tells lies now and then for various reasons, which is normal, and very different from what I call "life lies". Life lies are more serious and can lead to serious consequences and can have a negative impact on a person financially, emotionally and sometimes physically. My husband started trucking 5 yrs ago and tells lies non-stop. I think the "freedom" of the job makes a trucker gain the attitude, outta sight, outta mind. Long story short he probably is married to a sucker like me and fears he will lose you, the girlfriend. I myself am tired of the location lies, the lies about repairs, being stuck, etc. BS is at least entertaining but lying about parents and living situations--not good. I think most men lie in general.

Nov 17, 2016
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just to let you know NEW
by: Anonymous

I hope that people don't get the impression that truck driver men are the only liars?

There are many men who lie. In the regular(non-truckers) male population the percentage of liars are higher than there are male trucker drivers.

So answer to your question. ...yes some are lairs and there are more mainstream males that are liars.

Pick or choose...do you want a chance to find a good non lieing trucker or do you want a bigger chance of finding a liar of mainstream pop.?

It's your choice.

Food for thought...never hook up with any man quickly just because you gotta have a man..take your time listen with your brain and not with the heart..emotions are the worst to use when making a choice. Do it logically....then u will find a man that's not a liar...

Oct 26, 2016
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Boyfriend just Began OTR I'm so disappointed with his lies NEW
by: Anonymous

Need some advice. My boyfriend just passed his cdl and waiting for orientation and start of driving his first miles. He's been out for 6 weeks now, and even though he was told he could take a week off he decided to stay in the paid for hotel as he does not have any income. In between college and now back at the hotel he has not called much and when I call him he leaves the room he's sharing with another student driver. At first I didn't think anything of it and I want to be supportive but it seems he's hiding to talk to me. They have had parties in his hotel room as well as during school they (other student drivers) got together to go out and drink. He himself told me one of the guys who is married with children, said that if he had a chance with a woman he would definitely take it. Although I trust my boyfriend his coed makes me insecure he is living with the type of guy who is always talking about woman and things I can't mention that are inappropriate. The thing that makes me very insecure is the fact that my boyfriend has to leave the room when I call so that I won't hear the noise. I feel as if there are woman in the room as part of the "get together" and he is lying to me. The reason I feel this way is because he says he'll call me back and he doesn't. If I text he won't answer, this has happened every time there is a so called get together for happy hour or hanging out. There are woman in his class however HE is the one that by his actions is making me feel insecure. I feel this new trucking career will destroy our relationship. We've been together for 10 years and have not been married due to his financial burdens and child support issues. He has no way of contributing to providing for our family so he choose to give trucking a shot. For this reason I can understand the sacrifice what I don't understand is why should I always be the supportive one and he does not see that I am also affected by being home alone taking care of everything else. Instead of making me feel at ease and that he is not doing anything he shouldn't, is the total opposite. He makes me feel he's lying and hiding something. To clarify, I am not the needy type, I have a demanding job and kids so not much time for that, however honesty is everything to me. I have given up a lot to be with him and spent many years of my life waiting for him to get things settled. It makes me feel so insecure and sad that after my sacrifice to continue with the relationship, I lost all these years of creating a stable family memories for my kids for nothing.

Sorry for the length of this, just feeling very depressed. He's losing our relationship just for a few months between studying and hanging out at the hotel until he's assigned to drive? It's like he's a little boy with college freedom, I don't even recognize him. this is affecting my daily family life having the household to myself, daily stresses and his attitude is just contributing to affect how I can handle his absence plus having to worry about if I can trust him or not.



May 05, 2015
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I trusted him........ Liar NEW
by: 16 year wife of trucker

Married 16 years. Cheated on the internet,lied about it to me. cheated in Zanesville oh with waitress. Lied to me. Walks off and Leaves me at an RV park in a trailer with 2 dogs. Our family business was embezzeled by an employee. He jump out on the road and leaves me to liquidate all the business.Give the building back to Bank. 60 years old woman driving forklift to clean up the mess. Decided to give house back. I had to pack a 3000 sq ft of a home.30 x 40 shop. Garage sell all we worked for, in which I have worked 46 years.I packed everything and hauled what we had left to dry storage's. I had his pickup front end repaired. I repaired our paid for RV and packed it to go mobile with his work. 2 months after 3 years of hell with no help. He was cheating, busted him. He says I just don't love you any more. He did not care...Left me at the RV Park. I will never even look at another driver.

Nov 22, 2014
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run- do not walk NEW
by: Anonymous

You are allowing yourself to be lied to and you know it. Run away from this guy as fast as you can, then do not allow yourself to get involved with another liar. If you don't have trust, you have nothing. You are just wasting your time.

Sep 14, 2014
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husband NEW
by: Anonymous

My husband is a long haul driver and I believe he was born to lie!! But with him being on the road he finds females where ever he goes wether its at a truck stop or through his facebook or even dating sites he will even tell them he lives in their state!! So its not just truck drivers they are just harder to catch, it some men in general that just love lie

Dec 25, 2013
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truth NEW
by: Anonymous

no its not the fact that a truck driver lies pathologically speaking....it is a fact that most people in general lie about something....people who lie to just lie may have some mental health issues however, it can not be pinned on to all truck drivers as a whole....just get rid of liars or mentally you will wear yourself down, even if for laughs, you may be feeding into an individual who is in fact mental and how cruel it is to play off that for your own pleasure...if you can help him get the mental health care he may need would be the most appropriate behavior you can do for a person with special needs.

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