How to I find out if my husband is cheating?

by Candy
(Washington State)

I have been married to my husband 4 years this December

For the last 2-3 months I have notice some real changes in his behavior he hardly sleeps in the bed with me. He complains. He does not have sex with me after being away for 2 to 3 months.

Now he does not call me. He use to put at least a thousand dollars in our bank account for me each week. He missed 3 weeks there was nothing. Then he put $800.00 now for the last two weeks he has put $500.00. This does not help much with the bills.

Does he want to end this marriage. I found a package of Max Libdo pills. There were 30 to begin wi but the package had only 10. I asked him about it and he lied and said they were old.

Then there was a second newer of course which had the same thing. This time I said nothing. When he came home about a month and a half he had a tube of Entend

He hides his phone, sleep with it underneath him. Now he hardly calls me while he is away. I feel so hurt. Rejected. Abandoned, disrespected, disappointed.

Please help I never expected this and I just don't know why.

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May 05, 2017
Tell him you know
by: Hervy

I think u need to seek a counselor to help u navigate this and stay strong...

Make sure you look out for you and your future (interests, health, finances, etc)...while working on the marriage...

There are enough concrete signs to paint the picture. Tell him you knw and point out the reasons.

Ask himif he wants the marriage to continue or not cause if he does it requires some changes in his attitude and behavior.

Also he needs to agree with seeing a counselor with you.

Of course that might not go down as easy as stated.

I feel that you need to see a counselor

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