Devastated.......

by Annie
(The South)

My hubby is hooked on internet/phone porn sex while on the road he calls etc Philippines who do whatever he wants. He claims he is lonley on the road.

This is NOT the first time he has been "addicted" to online infidelity. After the first time yrs ago he promised not to do this again, yet here he is doing just that.

Are men so week,that when they are away from home they just let whatever it is overtake their judgement and let their standards down? I don't understand this at all, and I am afraid that this is the end of my marriage.

I can not and will not put up with this any longer. Though he said he was sorry and wants to work it out, he is still texting/calling/interneting the "woman" and I use that term loosely.

Has anyone dealt with this kind of situation? Do I just give up? That is how I feel.....

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Feb 27, 2015
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Still doing it NEW
by: Anonymous

I found out my husband was addicted to chat rooms and literotica several years ago. I told him how I felt about it and he said he never wanted to ever hurt me and told me he would stop. The only thing he did was change his screen name. He never stopped. Found out about 3 weeks ago he is even deeper into all of it than I ever imagined. He can't give it up. I will not compete with it. I want a real relationship. I hope he can finally meet with these women he has lusted over all these years and sent personal messages and emails to. I hope he can find happiness with them. I wish him the best. Life's too short not to have someone who loves and respects you.

May 04, 2014
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fireproof NEW
by: Anonymous

next time your husband is home ask him to watch the movie fireproof. My husband and I watched it together and it brought tears to his eyes knowing what he had been doing to me and my heart.. If this movie doesnt get to him nothing will..good luck to you as I have been there..

Nov 28, 2013
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time NEW
by: Anonymous

time heals all...and pray to God daily

Nov 28, 2013
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Final..... NEW
by: Annie

I am legally divorced. Do I celebrate? No. Do I cry like a baby? Yes. As sad part of life.

Feb 27, 2013
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YOU GO GIRL!! NEW
by: Anonymous

Congrads, on your new life....I wish you many blessings in your new chapter of life....be happy no time for saddnes our lives are to short for all the nonsense.

Feb 27, 2013
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Update... NEW
by: Annie

I have decided it is divorce time. Cheating hubby has shut down my cell phone and changed passwords on accounts. He in chin deep into these Philippino "women" who bare it all and more online.

I have found the emails, seen the naked photos and printed the phone records.

Using the profession of trucking is just an excuse for his actions.

Now I begin a new chapter in my life. Lawyers here I come!

For the person who mentions Christ...hubby goes to his church when at home, he is Penecostal,(I am NOT) so he should know better!

I am looking forward to a happy new life without all the drama. Peace and happiness....ahhhhhhh

Thanks for all the comments they are greatly appreciated.

Feb 26, 2013
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my two cents worth NEW
by: Anonymous

So sorry to hear this. This is a decision only you can make. As for me, porn is cheating...period. It's immoral and a sickness. Before ending the marriage, I'd insist on counseling...intense counseling or it would be the end for me. If he's not willing, you know your only choices are to accept it....or get out. Prayers will be with you. And btw...."trucking" is no excuse.....how many of us wives have been left alone at home "keeping the home fires burning" and remain faithful! He needs to man up! Introduce to him to Christ and see what our Savior has to say about it! Good luck!

Feb 26, 2013
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Take Inventory NEW
by: Rachel

I don't always think my advice is right but I always seem to have it regardless.
No one can tell you what to do in your situation. It is your responsibility to yourself & your husband and kids if you have any.
My husband is also a porn king. LOL! He loves it. It use to bother me alot. As we went through our life issues there were (past tense) worse things he could and had done. So like I said: your responsibility to make that decision.
Weigh your pros and cons of your marriage and see which side outweighs the other. Sounds simple right. But in your heart, hopefully you know whats best for your family.
I wish you all the luck!

Feb 25, 2013
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LAME www.infowars.com NEW
by: Anonymous

www.infowars.com

this must becoming from a mans point of view, of course!! that site is for dummys who think the world is coming to an end....or something like that, and it is contaminated with viruses for your computer too!! BEWARE!!

Feb 25, 2013
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this link NEW
by: Anonymous

www.infowars.com
your cheating husband is the least of your worries.

Feb 25, 2013
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No one can really tell you what you should do NEW
by: Anonymous

You can only go on experience and ask yourself if all the drama is really worth it....

Sorry that you are going through this.
God Bless!

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