A GODDESS NAMED (LATINA)
Married to a trucker for 14 years.
He's been a trucker for 10 of those years,
We have 4 children oldest 12 youngest 5.
It was hard at first and then a lot easier and suddenly hard again. I take my hat off to those that are holding up.. I do work. I am a very busy woman..SO Im not just looking at the calendar and taking care of our children. Its just a lot!!
Especially when you cant reach him and the response is, “I was in the desert for 8 hours”....i smell a rat,, i will remain faithful..because im that kind of woman..but i will not continue to hide behind the "oh well he's working syndrome" lol.. But i will pray and check out the scene...A Little more.. Otherwise hey to the newbies...
BE Down and supportive to your hubby, but keep eyes opened... Its a lot of nasty diseases out there..AND Some men get weak.. Lets just pray it isn’t ours.. And no not only truckers,, all men..
But lets face it truckers have a ready made bed along with a different scenery many days of the week,,,and nasty women all all around.
So hey if you don't have a job or gig to do..TAKE Up a trade or training when you can..JUST In case..YOUR Special trucker of a husband or boyfriend turns out to be a weak little boy that can't wait for his wife.. To ease the stress Skype is great!!! And yes it helps to be real!!! Some of our men ain’t gonna wait for his wife.. And if it turns out that your wonderful hubby is this great a loyal man wonderful..
You will still be more skilled and trained in your own profession! So its a win win!!! Don t worry never worry,,just don’t be a fool God will give you the spirit of discernment no not holier than thou..BUT I do have faith in God...
To all my sister trucker wives..KEEP Eyes opened.. Don’t throw away your life... Waiting while hes on the road,,get a plan to help him and more importantly to help yourself if he turns from Dr Jekyll to Mr Hyde njoy your life.!!!