3 years two year old twin boys and still waiting...
I could really use some advise! My boyfriend David left AZ about two months ago to work for Stevens, he is still training, making 318 a week doing dumb and dumber.
Anyhow, I'm not working due to thyroid cancer/radiation etc... And we are struggling.
Even if i found a job i need it to be more than minimum wage so i have medical and enough to pay for daycare.
He says he took this job opportunity with Stevens to better our life and situation, but i feel he left bc he wanted that freedom again.
He rarely calls and when i call he says he is busy and when he does call its for two minutes and days he has to eat and sleep.
I am beginning to think this was his way of walking away. We fight all the time and even when im being supportive and give him elbow room he still isn't happy.
I asked if he lost love for me he says he is just busy but he says 10min a day to talk is enough and i should be thankful he called once.. But i cant help but feel he left me with all the responsibility.
I make sure our bills are payed with what little he makes and i sacrifice so much of my needs to make sure he has enough to get by on the road. I want him to come home. I feel its better he take a local job making 15 an hour and i can work opposite his shift. So we aren't struggling and we aren't living paycheck to paycheck.
Do you think im being selfish??? He says i should be patient that my time will come, but i have been for 3 years patient for him to fall in love with me-patient to get back to work, i have been out of work since i had my sons and i need to work not only to support my family but for my sanity.
I don't mind being alone, but if i wanted to act single i would be. I feel as though he abandoned us. I love him and im trying to make it work but he isn't putting in the effort.
Should i move to a shelter and go after him for child support or should i wait patiently?
What should i do