will i ever trust him again???????????

I spent my yrs. devoted to my trucker husband then 2 yrs. ago i found out he cheated.. I know it took him a a yr. and half even to admit anything... of course because of this i ended up with a std and that has taken me so much therapy!!!!!!!!!!

he took a local trucking job and lo and behold he decide to go back to long hauling.. I spent yrs. on the rd. with him and I feel like I do not trust him at all but he does not seem to grasp this...

How can I quit grieving over lost part of our relationship and be truly happy again???????

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Oct 08, 2015
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It is what it is NEW
by: Anonymous

As a trucker I can tell you right now he's getting some on the side and can't wait to get back on the road where it's easier to do. You can't change him, so you can either learn to live with it or move on.

Oct 07, 2015
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In your shoes NEW
by: Anonymous

Been there - 3 years later still hurts as much as it did the day I found out. It's not the anger of finding out - it's like you said... You grieve the relationship you thought you had. I miss the man I thought I was married to - we are currently separated because I couldnt get past it - i am just now coming to terms with the fact that the man I loved never existed. He is trying so hard - but it's all bullshit... There were others I found out about and he still doesn't know I know about them... Until he fully admits to eberuthing we will stay Apart - unless I get tired of waiting and move on.

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