Way to long before he comes home....
Hi, I'm not married to my trucker but we have been together 3 1/2 years. We met when I was visiting in Ar. and used to see each other a lot as he drove down through missouri, ok, texas area.
Once I came back home to Maine now we don't see each other very much at all, maybe twice a year. He says his company (conway truckload) can't get him up this way. I'm not sure I believe that and I have to wonder if he just isn't interested in a commitment with me anymore.
He calls my home (ours) and says things like "when I come home". He often says I'll be home in a couple weeks but that just never happens and it will be several months before I see him.
In 2013 we saw each other one time. We do talk several times every day on the phone. Do you think he doesn't want the same things for our future that I would like? I want marriage and a some what normal life with him. I don't want him to stop trucking just to come home once in a while. By the way...I am 53 and he is 55, we are not young.
I'm hoping you can give me an outsiders point of view on what may be happening here.