When I met my husband he was an OTR driver. He promised me when we hit two years of marriage he would find local work. Two years passed in May of this year, now he's asking me for 3 more years. Says he had a 5 year plan when me met me.
I explained to him when he set that plan he did not have a wife. We are currently on the outs and I feel he has not been faithful to me during our entire marriage(starting at 3 months). I recently discovered he has a second cell phone (pre-paid). So the person probably doesn't know he's married. I am not currently working so the option right now for divorce is not on the table. I need the health insurance.
Although, he says he does not want a divorce, and of course says he is not messing around. (Then why the 2nd phone) Spiritually and physically I have moved on. Emotionally I am a wreck.
How have you ladies dealt with the emotional side of the wife of a trucker?
