Why would someone ned to take their suit coat and dress clothes with them if they are only going to be driving truck?

by Lori
(Allegan)

Hubby said after 30 years of mariage, together 31 years, he doesn't want to be with me anymore. He's only been driving truck for 2 months, both of them with a trainer. He did tell me he has been talking to the girl he took to the prom 40 years ago. He came home this week and packed most of his stuff including all his dress clothes. Why would he do that when he says he will be home in a couple of months? He even took his army memorabilia with him. He said he doesn't want a divorce and is still going to direct deposit his paychecks. Can anyone give me some insight? Does this happen to all OTR drivers at one point or another?

We went out to lunch and I did tell him I am jelous because he calls this women 2 times every day and talks for over 2 hours but can't even spare 20 minutes for me. He got mad and wondered just how I knew who he was talking to and how much and I told him his daughter is the account holder and I pay the bills. He said there is nothing going on and that they are just catching up and she has had a bad relationship in the past and is trying to get over it, sort of comparing notes so to speak. He said he hasn't been happy for 28 years. I wish he had told me that 28 years ago I would have started my life without him.

The sad part is that I still love him and have hope for us because I'v always believed marriage was till death due us part. I told him I will never stop loving him and his words were "I can't stop you from loving me" He stopped taking his meds while on the road. Could that have something to do with it? He has been on depression meds for quite a few years and he has diabetes, high BP, heart problems and GERD.