I can relate exactly to how you feel. My husband just left for his training March 1. We was told 3 weeks but he found out once he got to Texas it would be more like 6 weeks. I feel so alone and when I talk to him I talk more to air than to him like he has nothing to say to me or realy cares about what I am saying. We been married 11 years and our marriage has been rocky and I am wondering if this was a way for him to get out of it. He says not that he is only doing this to better our life and he hasn't wanted a divorce before that he beleives a marriage is like a job something you hafe to keep working on but I feel like screaming and saying the HECK WITH IT!!!!!!!!
The only thing keeping me sane is concentrating on my job and repeating our vows we took 11 years ago. I'm trying to honor our vows and be a good wife but why should I when it seems like he could care less??? I dont know. I just hope things will get better for both of us. I wish u the best!
Mar 14, 2010 Rating
I understand by: Anonymous
I can relate exactly to how you feel. My husband just left for his training March 1. We was told 3 weeks but he found out once he got to Texas it would be more like 6 weeks. I feel so alone and when I talk to him I talk more to air than to him like he has nothing to say to me or realy cares about what I am saying. We been married 11 years and our marriage has been rocky and I am wondering if this was a way for him to get out of it. He says not that he is only doing this to better our life and he hasn't wanted a divorce before that he beleives a marriage is like a job something you hafe to keep working on but I feel like screaming and saying the HECK WITH IT!!!!!!!!
The only thing keeping me sane is concentrating on my job and repeating our vows we took 11 years ago. I'm trying to honor our vows and be a good wife but why should I when it seems like he could care less??? I dont know. I just hope things will get better for both of us. I wish u the best!