The guilt of being a wife and a mother
Wives, I have a dilemma and need some input before tomorrow please. My husband is leaving Tuesday night/wed morning for at least two weeks and when they are finished in Kentucky they will be empty, you all know what that means.
My almost 26 year old daughter, who lives in Ohio, but is being transferred back to Detroit is staying in Ohio to finish her semester while her husband is back here working.
She originally proposed she take me back to Ohio tomorrow as she is here visiting her husband for the weekend and i stay with her til Easter when she comes back for our family day.
When I knew mike was leaving Monday that seemed like an awesome idea major quality time with my granddaughter who i hardly ever see and fun with her who i miss terribly, now to complicate this a bit more Mike and I were only married Jan. 19 so since I have been married I have spent about 20 days total with my husband and only 4 leading up to the wedding since Christmas.
I would love love love to go with my daughter but I cant see leaving my husband before he has to go. My daughter is now telling me I am selfish and can not understand a mother not helping her daughter, and that is not it at all.
Mike says I can do whatever I want he is like that always, but I know he wants me here he said that too. I feel terrible inside but My daughter is a grownup and should be able to handle her life her school and her daughter without me, not that i wouldn't.
I want to be with my husband but she is making me feel so guilty please help, I need some advice!!!!
Thanks so much