My husband has been doing trucking now for 5 months & the first month he was with the trainer.
After passing his final test,they gave him his own truck.They gave him a team driver that left him & he went solo for a month before they gave him another team driver.
Well my husband calls me last month & tells me he has a severe case of the chills & I told him to get to a doctor & he kinda doctored it with drinking water & cranberry juice.
The symptoms subsided & then he had them start up again & he went to a hospital & the docs gave him medicine & he told me that one of the docs asked him if he was having unprotected sex & my husband said he told the doc no!
Well now that my husband got out of the hospital & went back to the truck, his team driver told him that by Thanksgiving he'll be off the truck & him & my husband will go their separate ways.
I asked my husband why & he said his driver did not give him an answer. I was just at my family doctor for a sinus infection & I saw the PA (physician assistant) & I asked him if UTIs or prostatitis cause severe chills & he told me no!
Are there wives ir girlfriends out there that has had similar situations? I don't want to accuse him right to his face but at the same time I am not going to feel intimate with him when he does come home because I feel betrayed because my husband would never tell me & be honest if he had a 1 night stand.
He probably thought he could get away with it because we are miles apart & possibly got caught & the PA said that if my husband came to him or the doctor they would just give him an antibiotic for an UTI & they wouldn't test him for a possible STD is because he is married!
Also my husband is not up to date medically on info meaning he thinks as long as he gets an antibiotic he is cured & I am afraid now to have intimacy with him knowing what I know & I feel the team driver knows something I don't know & he can't fill me in because him & I do not know each other!