pregnant and feeling lonely

by Christina
(Dearborn Heights, MI USA)

My husband and I have been married for 11 1/2yrs. He started Long haul trucking 5 yrs ago. We had three kids and I just found out I am pregnant with the 4th. Lately I have been feeling really lonely.

It seems that he is always gone and when he is home he is too tired to do things with us,but if his friends call he is gone. At first I thought it was just me seeing it but lately his family and my family have been seeing it to.

Then earlier this week I found out that he had a facebook page and was talking to these other women. When I confronted him he told me they were friends from HS and they were just talking. But what makes me sad is that he can talk to them and he dont have time for me.

I dont want to lose him but I am afraid it is to late. He also locks his cell phone and is always texting.

Is it me or is something going on?

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Dec 06, 2013
Facing Reality NEW
by: Hervy

The best thing to do is to ask him direct questions about the future of the relationship. Find out if you are on the same page.

He will ask you why the conversation if he cares.

Explain how you feel neglected. Have specific examples like the scenarios you presented here.

His willingness to this conversation and response to what you say will tell you a lot about how he feels about you and the relationship.

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