New Relationship with a OTR driver
So I met this wonderful guy on a dating website and he's a OTR driver. We have only known each other for about 2 weeks but we fell madly in love over the phone and he has surprised me at my job 2 times in those 2 weeks as he's driving through.
we are already talking about getting a place together and getting married and I truly believe I love this man.(I have been married before and know how I don't want to be treated and what love is)
I know this all sounds good and I hope it continues this way however I do have my doubts. I know I can be a faithful girlfriend/wife and since we talk constantly on the phone I doubt he would do anything while on the road.
My problem is he has 3 kids with 2 different girls and we have talked briefly about his relationship with his kids and his baby mommas but I still want to be really cautious.
I'm afraid I will be just another baby momma or that when the newness of our relationship wears off that we wont get to see each other when he is home.
I don't want to be selfish I know he has kids and having a son myself I know its important for him to have a good relationship with his kids I would never want to take that away from him but on the other hand I want to be selfish and say I want your time.
We have been very open and honest with each other in the past 2 weeks and talked about all of this but I need something to calm my nerves and tell me that this will work. I try to have the attitude that if its meant to be then it will be but its still hard since we cant see each other as much as I'd like.
So far we have or I should say I have been handling it well knowing he is out there making money so we can have a life together. We have even made plans for me to go on the road for a weekend.
I know there will be trying times, like when I want him home for a family event or just need a hug from my sexy truck driver:) any advice for me ladies?