Married a trucker - It was really bad...
I dated an otr driver who became pretty much local. Three years we dated and lived seperate. Married him and moved in. I have one child he had two boys. I raised the boys for eight years, but after I moved in he turned into Mr. Butthole.
Always in his room alone ignoring me and the kids, never helps with anything even though he is home. I got sick and he would never go to any spots, even when I needed a driver for sedation.
One of his children has learning disabilities as well. He got better at taking care of his boys after years, but still cruel to me and completely ignored my daughter. Never would answer his phone when he left to go to work. Didn't want to have anything to do with us.
Now he does do things with his sons, but it's like he is just trying to make me jealous because he pays them attention. I cooked, cleaned took his kid to therapy, laundry, baths, clothes kept house. And even brought in large sums of money.. he hated me.
Now that we are divorced he says he wants to change. Have done this too many times to count and it always ends the same way. Now he is just sickening sweet. This has been the same for five years now. And every time he gets in a rut, he says I love you I promise to make it better and to change.
It was really bad.