I'm tired and frustrated with my otr truck driver fiancée.

I had been with him for one year when he decided to become a trucker and do otr, I was also four months pregnant with his child. At first it was hard being apart for up to 6 weeks at a time but I eventually became used to it.

A few months into him being otr the relationship was getting so bad from him always being stressed and in a bad mood that all we did was argue, even when he was on home time.

To make things worse he doesn't get paid that well and we eventually started arguing over money and bills. Luckily he was able to see our babies birth but ever since the birth I've grown this hatred towards him. I don't find it fair how I'm the one who cares for the baby all day and night. He gets to sleep up to ten hours at times and on his time off watches movies or plays games while I'm with the baby 24/7.

It's gotten to a point where we rarely talk since he mostly does night runs and I prefer sleeping than talking to him. I'm at a point where I prefer moving on if he doesn't get a local job soon enough.

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by: Vicki

You are BOTH making a sacrifice. It's not easy being away from your family and it's not easy to be the one left at home. Have you ever gone in s trip with him to see what his daily routine is?

Let me tell you from experience, if you continue to have this hate and jealousy toward him and the road then you'll eventually kill any love you have towards him. The grass isn't any greener on the other side and it's not going to be any less hectic leaving him with a baby.

It takes a special and strong woman to to hold things down for their trucker and that's probably why he choose you. Look at your time in all of this because it takes 2 people to argue. Sometime the wifey has to be the one to set the stage and be an example. Seek counseling if you need but don't give up! I was in this same situation 14 years ahi with my trucker and we are now more in love than when we met. It's hard and it's a struggle but if you love him it will all be worth it!

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by: Hervy

I can see how you would be very frustrated. I hope the babies are doing wonderful and sleep all night for you.

Have you told him how you feel about what is going on?

If he is not making money, what is his reason for staying with that company?

Since he has a year of experience, he should be able to get another trucking job. Perhaps he can pursue one that gets him home more regularly.

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