I'm So Angry

its getting harder each day trying to makee myself happy about being at home taking care of my 2 step kids. My husband was a truck driver before we got together but the kids was with there mother.


long story short we had all 4 but the older ones got out of hand and my husband sent them back with there mother. now i have only the small 2. i guess im angry because i have raised mine all in college and here i am raising 2 more by myself i feel like.

My husband thinks i'm super woman and can do anything. but I cannot I snap im unhappy lonely and i dont know how much i can bare.

What do i do?

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Sep 26, 2017
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Those thoughts are toxic. NEW
by: Anonymous

I find it extremely difficult to empathize with any woman who married a man with children and does not accept those children as part of the marriage. They are a package deal. My advice to you is to get a therapist and figure out if you are going to stay in the marriage without causing the children emotional turmoil over your rejection of them, or just get out. I am married to a trucker that treats my children as his own, as I do for his. If either of us was selfish and entitled enough to force the other to choose the spouse over the children, this relationship would be over.
If you didn't sign up to be a part of his family when you married him, then you don't understand what relationships are really about. That is toxic thinking. I hope that you and the people who encouraged and justified your position on this thread seek some professional help before you realize that you are ruining every relationship you have and causing children to feel rejected and unloved.

Apr 08, 2016
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Hats off NEW
by: Anonymous

Hi, I'm a male trucker & here is another spin on this subject.... While the husband is away working & the lonelyness sets in..,,,is it harder & harder to stay faithful...?

Feb 24, 2016
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Put your foot.down NEW
by: Anonymous

I went thru the same.thing until I.had to.put my foot down and let him know.that I married him, and not his.children...he.was angry at.first but eventually got over it. Now I travel with.him in the.semi..no kids.

Feb 24, 2016
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Live YOUR life NEW
by: Sweethtooth

RUN... You're being taken advantage of! Let them raise their own kids!!!

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