How can I trust my husband over the road

by Cody
(Duncan ok)

I am a new truck drivers wife and its hard to keep trust in my husband when I hear all of the stories that I do about a truck drivers life. My husband has been very loyal to me, But I wonder how he is when he goes away from me for a long period of time. I worry about him stopping in the truck stops and encountering one of those lot lizards. And what he might do sense he hasn't been around me for a while. I don't think he would do anything but I don't know for sure.

I feel very left out most of the time, thinking he is out seeing the country and having a good time and I am stuck at home taking care of my daughter and the house. I hear some very disturbing things that a lot of truck drivers do while their on the road.

If anyone has any advise on how to handle this please email me a letter . thanks

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Jan 20, 2012
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you have to decide if he is worth it! NEW
by: Anonymous

A cheating man will cheat whether you see him daily or not. A loyal man won't regardless of circumstance. You should always trust until they give you a reason not to, and if you don't, there is no reason to be in a relationship. without trust you have nothing.

My boyfriend has been doing this awhile and was single for awhile, says he never goes for the lot lizards and wants a relationship, someone that will be faithful. I trust him. He makes me feel great when he's around and I'm grateful for that, also a little grateful that I have some autonomy. I'd rather miss him and think of him fondly, than be with some cheating jerk that treats me like crap which we all know there are a lot of men out there like that! I get benefits of being single, Freedom to be alone and do what I love, he does too. and the benefit of being together when we are and having a great man I am soo happy with.

As they say, if you cant handle the heat, get out of the kitchen!

Jan 24, 2010
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love and trust
by: barbara

I FEEL SOMEWHAT RESPONSIBLE FOR YOU FEELING THE WAY YOU DO, I HOPE THAT YOU DON;T FEEL THAT WAY BECAUSE OF MY STORY, UNTILL HE GIVES YOU A REASON TO NOT TRUST HIM,''DON;T JUMP TO CONCLUSIONS.''BUT THAT DOES NOT MEAN,NOT TO LOOK FOR ANY SIGNS OF TROUBLE ,AND ENVEST TIME IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP AND ALWAYS LET HIM KNOW THAT YOU LOVE HIM. MAY GOD ALWAYS BE FIRST IN YOUR LIVES AND BLESS YOU WITH MANY LONG YEARS TOGETHER,Barbara (willaccochee, GA.)

Nov 26, 2009
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Wait
by: Dottie

Don't jump to quickly.You know your husband. You will see the changes if they come. Keep doing what you have been doing. If he suddenly needs more time to himself, takes the cell with him all the time, or isn't as sexually available to you as before, then get curious.

Jun 05, 2009
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Treat him like a king when he is at home
by: Hervy

Susan has the perfect response to your question if you have a good man.

Ladies take notes. No man would think about a lot lizard with this a woman like Susan at home.

Show him you love him and appreciate him and he will show you that you have nothing to worry about.


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