He change after being on the road
He thought going back to trucking would bring us closer together after 17 years of marriage, but he got so used to being waited on by waitresses when he was on the road and ordering what ever he wanted to eat that I just didn't measure up any more.
He became very distant to me and said "don't bother having any thing for me to eat because it probably won't be something I like any way. So I couldn't do any thing right any more.
So I spoke to his minister about the conflict that I was having and needed help on a spiritual level so the minister spoke to my husband and he then up and left me!