Hard life of a trucker's g/f
I am a 29 y/o mother of 1, I started dating my b/f almost 2 years ago. He is a flat bed driver and loves his work.I have been on the road with him a few times and have done everything but drive the truck. I have heard that truckers a normally pretty hard to get along with exp. for long periods of time.. This so far proves to be true with mine.
I love him to death and have tried to keep him involved in every aspect with whats going on at home as much as I can and still never seems to be enough. I know my man loves me but boy does he get upset easy and I seems to always push his buttons without trying..
It is super stressful for me and I don't think he sees or understands where I'm coming from most of the time. Any advice on how to get him to be a bit more supportive of what I do at home...
I pay all the bills take care of my 10 year old the house and cars and animals plus I deal with his appointments and his wife( they been separated for 10years) and his teenage son. I have dealt with her trying to get him back and have not said one word to her about it.. She is his son's mom and has had strokes and isn't in the best health. I have picked them up and taken them places and what I really want to do is have him take her to court and get his son and punch her in the face..
I also deal with all his family functions with out him and my one kid isn't his btw.. I do have a part time job at a daycare I don't get near enough hours and I have to deal with my over dramatized ex when he decides to call or have something to do with my kid..
My b/f wonders why I'm stressed.. Not to mention I have to take care of my mom's yard for her and I have a sick uncle and trying to have a baby with p.s.o.s. and not having luck with that cuz i can't lose weight to help it cuz its got my hormones all out of messed up and my b/f is only home every other weekend..
But everything I do he expects me to be on the phone with him and do and I just can't stand it!! AAAAHHHH ok Its not just wives out there whom deal with this.. If we was married would make things easier on me a lil cuz I have to jump through hoops to handle things for him.