Don't know what to think? Help.

by Suzie
(Canada)

I'm involved with a man who's a long haul truck driver and most of the time we see each other every weekend.

Sometimes the truck breaks down and sometimes it's 2-3 weeks depending on the breakdown. We always had sex every week when he came home.

Now he ask me to leave him alone, says he's tired and now only wants to have sex with me once a month sometimes every 2 weeks or 3 weeks.

We have only been together less than two years. What am I suppose to think? To add to it I am not allowed to instigate sex it is only on his terms?

I have asked him if he wanted to be single? He said no and why?

I asked him if he's getting his needs met elsewhere and he gets defensive and mad. Then he accuses me of cheating which I am not. I am totally loyal.

Now I'm not allowed to even ask that question because he said if I ask that again he's going to go and cheat.

I love this man but this is totally unacceptable in my book.

Not too long ago he picked up a hitchhiker and brought him home when I was away.

The hitchhiker was gone the next day when I arrived and of course my truck driving man did not want to be intimate with me that weekend before he went on the road.

What am I suppose to think?

Other than he is cheating on me but I have no proof.

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