by Anonymous Driver Wife
Bluntly is all I know to be at this point, I'm sorry. My husband (otr driver) and I trying to reconcile our marriage. He was homeless in truck driving school we attended together, (I have an apartment he's NOT on my lease and has never been here).
I married him anyhow upon graduating. We then separated almost immediately- I am no longer driving due to health issues (I currently have cancer) 3 1/2 yrs later we have started talking and trying last couple months to work things out.
He's not coming to visit once and hasn't offered to contribute whatsoever to finance, except this month when he paid my 45 dollar straight talk phone card) and gets upset if I don't answer... Yet he says he loves me and wants to transfer to another company closer to where I am.
He insists we go to marriage counseling... But so far it just seems like talk. He's STILL homeless (living in his truck at terminal) when he's on home time.
Although I've NEVER asked him for a penny- he always says he broke and can't afford to eat?
Please tell me what I'm missing here? Any advice is appreciated please be honest, just don't be mean. Thank you in advance