Samantha, thanks for sharing your experience as a truckers wife.
Seems you have zeroed in a a pretty good balance of how to make things work.
I know it is not easy. I am sure you just made it a little more easier for some other new wives though by showing that the relationship can be strong and solid even through the tuff times and separation of the trucking lifestyle.
many years of happiness and success!
Hervy
PS. You guys should start working on your plans for the transition out of the truck whenever that may be if you haven't already. So the ideal future that you want is something that your are working on making a reality